Having a preschooler brings back childhood memories when I was bored to death during meals. Eating was such drudgery. Sure, parents could force you to participate in conversation but that was never long and grown-ups go back to talking to each other over the kids' heads. As a mom, I know
I do.
I see now it's worse for an only-child like Ladybug Girl. When we're with a big group, the kids entertain each other and I finally enjoy some adult conversation. But out with just us, she sighs and drags her feet when it's time to eat.
I grew up with no table manners because I would read for entertainment at the dinner table. A generation later, my daughter does the same with her iPad:
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| Sometimes I load it with a few new videos but it's a last resort for some contented dining |
Oh, she still has a lot of fun with it at our expense.
But when it's time for other conversations apart from "can-you-tell-me-that-story-again-six-more-times", I've always had a handy
art bag with me. I try to change it up and make it smaller, which is a good thing in its evolution. It's been so useful, I thought I'd share more ideas.
Here's what our art bag has looked like for about six months now.
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| Pens, Washi Tape, Paper, Price Stickers, Small Notebook, Dice |
Artzooka sticker sheets are a no-brainer suggestion when you want a final, final extension on chika.
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| Turning her water jug into a pirate |
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| My phone into a bug |
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| The cafe's fortune plant into a robot |
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| The plane's spoon into another bug |
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| And a simple square drawing into a great house. |
The Muji pens are still getting the job done without rolling under tables, thanks to their hexagon shape.
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| We leave thank-you notes for our servers |
Sometimes I pop in a book or mini-puzzle in my bag at the last-minute.
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| The puzzle gifts come in handy for these moments! |
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Helpful also for patiently waiting before mass starts.
(Did you notice that Baby Alive goes where we go now?) |
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| This enormous book choice was super last-minute. Crazy mom. |
I can't run out of these cheap price stickers. With a little imagination they're magic.
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| Making our own game board with the back of the restaurant's placemat |
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| We play before and after eating |
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| Now she "makes" one all by herself |
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| With pen caps as our tokens |
Our latest addition is a complete set of number sticks which
we've started to use to play more games.
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| Making the stairs practice |
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Beating Daddy at "trick questions" that I use to practice memorising the number pairs that make the sum of 10.
"What is this plus this?" or "If one part of ten is this, what's the other part?"
He doesn't know the rods, so she beats him easily every time |
The score card:
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| Ladybug Girl: 6, Daddy: 0 |
It may seem pretty fussy, why we need all this just to eat! But it's not just about boredom or beating the iPad zombie effect - we've always had issues with feeding because our petite little girl has not hit the 15th percentile since being born. It's true that all those Moriamin vitamins I took only made me fat, when she turned out to be naturally small. All our stressed-out force feeding hasn't helped her love eating either.
So as in most things I'm discovering in parenting, getting playful is just the solution. Care to share your own tips and tricks?
